College Education

At long last, my article on college education is complete. It is a fitting time, as I graduated from high school on June 7, 2013. The logical next step for most people is college, and it is certainly something my family and I have given much thought to over the past couple of years. Based on the information we have garnered, the people we have talked to, and my specific calling to be a godly homemaker, we have come to the conclusion that college is not the wisest or most profitable occupation for me. I am by no means implying that this is the right decision for everyone, only that all things must be wisely and prayerfully considered regarding this issue in every individual case. We mustn’t simply jump on board the cultural bandwagon, but rather seek the Lord’s will in our lives and follow it, no matter how odd or outdated it may seem to our society. With these things in mind, I hope that you will think through this article and be blessed by it.

Nine Reasons Why I Am not Following the Popular College Route

1. College is not the beginning of knowledge.

Contrary to popular opinion, college does not give us the knowledge we need to live by. It isn’t a light to our path or a lamp to our feet. Our society views college as the road that leads to wisdom and success in life.  Scripture, however, says something entirely different. Proverbs 1:7 says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” Similarly, Proverbs 9:10 states, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” Therefore, for me to pursue college as the world does - for the ultimate wisdom and understanding that will make me successful in life - would be foolishness. Only the fear of the Lord can truly make me successful, which leads to the second point.

2. The typical college does not teach the fear of the Lord, nor does it fulfill the requirement of wise company.

Since the fear of the Lord is the beginning - the starting point - of all knowledge, a college’s first goal should be to instruct in righteousness. However, as we all know, this is most definitely not the case. In fact, blatant paganism is more welcome on campus than Christianity, and increasingly Christians are prohibited from evangelizing on college grounds. It follows, then, that colleges actually teach foolishness. Psalm 14:1 says, “The fool has said in his heart, ‘There is no God.’” The majority of colleges today teach evolution and atheism rather than the fear of God. Furthermore, Scripture says, “Bad company corrupts good character.” Even as a strong Christian, the Lord warns us not to partake in bad company. A place where the majority of people fear man rather than God, who reject the reality of God, and who “suppress the truth in unrighteousness” would certainly qualify as bad company. It isn’t college that leads to blessing. Psalm 1:1 says, “Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful.”

3. A college degree is not a savior.

This may sound rather extreme, but when everything is boiled down, many people view a degree as some kind of savior. We have had many people ask us, “What if something happens to Stephanie’s husband so that he cannot work, shouldn’t she be prepared with a college education so she can support the family?” While on the surface this sounds reasonable, in reality it reflects a dependence upon the degree instead of on the Lord. I am commanded to follow the Lord’s call for my life and to obey trustfully. He is in charge of everything, and knows what is going to happen in my life. Therefore, I do not have to be afraid about the future, because He has it all planned out. My reliance for provision in times of trial is on Him alone, not on a piece of paper I received. In fact, the Lord provides for everyone, those with and without college degrees. I know the Lord will bless my obedience to His commands as Genesis 26:1-5 illustrates:

There was a famine in the land, besides the first famine that was in the days of Abraham. And Isaac went to Abimelech king of the Philistines, in Gerar. Then the Lord appeared to him and said: “Do not go down to Egypt; live in the land of which I shall tell you. Dwell in this land, and I will be with you and bless you; for to you and your descendants I give all these lands, and I will perform the oath which I swore to Abraham your father. And I will make your descendants multiply as the stars of heaven; I will give to your descendants all these lands; and in your seed all the nations of the earth shall be blessed; because Abraham obeyed My voice and kept My charge, My commandments, My statutes, and My laws.”

4. A college degree is not security.

Following from the above point, it is by no means guaranteed that a college degree will land a job. In fact, a study in 2011 revealed that eight out of ten college graduates were moving back home. College graduates are having significant difficulty finding work, and in June of 2012 the number of jobless graduates was almost 2,000,000. Furthermore, many who are employed don’t work in the field of their study. In our economy, it is just as difficult for a college graduate to find work as it is for a layman to do so. Thus, a degree really provides very little job security.

5. College does not contribute to contentment in my role, nor is it the best use of my single years.

The call the Lord has placed on my life is that of Proverbs 31 and Titus 2. I am preparing to be a submissive wife, mother and teacher, and homemaker. There are so many more details involved in this call, but as that is not the subject of this post, I will confine it to this description. College not only does not contribute to this role, it creates a discontentment with such a role. In studying anywhere from two to twelve years of my life towards a specific career, am I then going to easily and nonchalantly give that career up to be at home? Why would I use the single years the Lord has given me to study something which I will not be pursuing, in an atmosphere which disdains the call I have been given? It simply doesn’t make sense in light of the previous points, the contrary environment, and the time involved in something I won’t be able to pursue. My single years should be used in learning all of the various aspects of my career: that of wife, mother, and homemaker. If I spend that time on college, I will already be behind on knowing how to properly and efficiently run a household.

6. College narrows a woman’s work field.

In fact, why would I want to study one area of interest when I could study many? Why would I concentrate all of my time on a history degree, when during the same amount of time on my own I could learn about cooking, gardening, sewing, home business, raising children, teaching children, self-sufficiency, frugality, financing, holistic medicine, and many more fields? The knowledge base of a truly prepared Proverbs 31 woman is extensive, and ranges multiple degrees. What good is a history degree going to do me when I need to cook a five-course meal? However, I could learn how to cook a five-course meal and learn about history at the same time. The sky is the limit to the fields of study useful in the home.

7. Post-high school education is not limited to college.

As stated in the above point, there are so many fields of study for a Proverbs 31 woman. For as many topics as there are to study there are books. College is not necessary in order to gain an extensive knowledge of a topic. How many things have you learned through simply reading on your own? In fact, college primarily consists of reading and studying on your own anyway. In addition to books, there are local classes, online classes, and so many resources at our fingertips.

8. College debt does not help my future husband.

Proverbs 31:11-12 says, “The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” One of the greatest strains on a marriage is debt, and by incurring significant debt in college many women are doing their future husbands evil and not good. Furthermore, the Lord specifically warns against debt as slavery, and bringing slavery into a marriage is not the wisest course of action.

9. Many of the successful entrepreneurs never received college degrees.

Many of our founding fathers never even attended school, much less college. But perhaps you think that in order to succeed in today’s world, you must have a college degree. Though as discussed earlier success in this way without the Lord is actually foolishness, a healthy understanding of the lack of necessity for college even in this regard is in order. Michael Dell, founder and CEO of Dell, Inc, dropped out of college at age 19, never achieving the degree for which he was studying. Henry Ford, of Ford Motor Company, never even graduated high school. Bill Gates dropped out of college and established Microsoft. Rachel Ray never received a culinary college education. Steven Spielberg, known as one of the best filmmakers and co-founder of DreamWorks, dropped out of college. Finally, Mark Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook and the youngest person to achieve status on Forbes 400, never received a college degree¹. These people represent the highest pier of worldly success, and none of them attained a college degree. Remember, though, that worldly success is not what we are to strive for, but rather to be like Christ more every day.

I know that these ideas seem strange, and perhaps to some offensive. It is not my goal to offend anyone, but simply to give my reasons why I will not be attending the traditional, popular method of post-high school education. I realize the necessity for college in some occupations, such as that of doctor or nurse. However, for the calling of the woman in Scripture, there is no need to pursue college. This does not mean that I stop learning. In fact, I plan to learn a great deal in a plethora of fields. My focus is on the role the Lord has given me, and the plan He has for my life in regards to my further education. This is not a one-size-fits-all article, because the Lord’s plans are individual and specific. However, never try to fit the cultural expectations into the Lord’s calling for your life, but simply follow Him in faith. He will lead you to the best possible place. I leave you with my favorite verse, Romans 8:28, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”

1. http://learnfinancialplanning.com/famous-people-who-didnt-go-to-college/

Various Ramblings

I have been busy of late: gardening, cooking, crafting, cleaning, and various tasks accompanying the lot of a young lady and daughter. The chickens have begun laying eggs, the garden is growing (pictures to come soon), and God is as good as ever.
     In my free time, I have been reading in three books - Middlemarch by George Eliot, In My Father's House by various authors, and The Slaves' Champion by Henry Wheeler - besides listening to Uncle Tom's Cabin when I have work inside to do.

Recently, I decorated a straw hat with homemade cloth flowers. I took some pictures:

Also, as I was reading last night (perhaps very late last night, but time passes so quickly when reading) in The Slaves' Champion - a book about William Wilberforce written on the centenary of his birth - and this passage struck me:

    "' Keepsake, sir? ' said one in reply to a question, ' yes, I have one: my father's name, his deeds, and his love for God and man, which I will keep and, on my dying bed, hand with my last blessing to my children, uneclipsed by any black spot in my own life: I will hand it to them framed with my own deeds and piety, which shall be no disfigurement to the blessed souvenir. ' How beautiful is this greatness, and how exalted the nobility which is seen in the truly chivalrous father! "

This is such a wonderful summation of what Mr. Doug Phillips emphasizes so often: namely, the importance of patriarchal vision and blessings.

I am currently reading through the Bible, and am in the book of Ezra, where I found this passage intriguing:

"For Ezra had prepared his heart to seek the Law of the Lord, and to do it, and to teach statutes and ordinances in Israel."        -Ezra 7:10

I would love to know your thoughts on these things, as usual!

It's Spring!

Spring is such a wonderful season for declaring God's glory. I went outside today and took some snapshots of the beautiful flowers and greenery.

My very favorite tree.

It is almost 15 feet in circumference!

The deep green of the forsythias is so rich against the red barns.

The peaches are just starting to grow.

One of five peach trees. The Lord has provided us with fruit at our new home.

Beautiful purple vinca

We have several different kinds of azalea bushes

Baby pears

We have three pear trees

 I also recently planted Liberty and Granny Smith apple trees

Three apple trees were already here

Apple blossoms are so pretty

Some are white and some are pink

What we call "helicopter" seeds

Bunches of little white flowers

A caterpillar nest. When I was younger I collected thousands of caterpillars each year.

Blackberry bushes. We have quite a few of these

Our wonderful red barns

A very well-pruned dogwood tree

I am not sure what kind of bush this is, but it is gorgeous

At long last, here is a promised picture of our new home

This is probably my favorite shot

My mom found this tiny nest on the ground. Perhaps it is a hummingbird's nest

I cut the grass in the field today

I hope you enjoyed these little snippets of our new land. For us, these things are so very precious and new. God is so awesome! As Psalm 66:1-4 says,

"Make a joyful noise unto God, all ye lands:
Sing forth the honour of his name: make his praise glorious.
Say unto God, How terrible art thou in thy works! through the greatness of thy power shall thine enemies submit themselves unto thee.
All the earth shall worship thee, and shall sing unto thee; they shall sing to thy name."

Back to Eden and Garden Plan

My family and I recently watched a documentary entitled "Back to Eden".

It is about observing how God created nature, and implementing those concepts in the home garden. The website description is as follows:

"After years of back-breaking toil in ground ravaged by the effects of man-made growing systems, Paul Gautschi has discovered a taste of what God intended for mankind in the garden of Eden. Some of the vital issues facing agriculture today include soil preparation, fertilization, irrigation, weed control, pest control, crop rotation, and PH issues. None of these issues exist in the unaltered state of nature or in Paul’s gardens and orchards.

“Back to Eden” invites you to take a walk with Paul as he teaches you sustainable organic growing methods that are capable of being implemented in diverse climates around the world."

We were so impressed and encouraged by the information in this film, that I would highly recommend it to anyone who has an interest in gardening. You can watch it online for free at http://backtoedenfilm.com/

I am so thankful to God for putting this film into our lives right before gardening season this year, as we will be implementing this method in our new herb and vegetable gardens. He provided for the fact that we do not own a tractor so beautifully!

Also, I was very convicted by how Paul Gautschi consulted the Lord even in his gardening techniques. I suppose I have always considered the garden to by my deal, without realizing that God is the ultimate Gardener! I have been earnestly praying that the Lord will reveal things to me in my gardening journey this year, and help us to bless others who may not be able to garden.

Below is the plan I have laid out for our vegetable garden. I know it is very small, but I hope you are able to get the gist of it!

It is going to be 100ft by 70ft, which is a major venture for us. My mom and I are also working on the herb garden plan, which I will post when completed.

How Much is a Homemaker Worth?

This is a very interesting post I found on a blog I read (here). While being a homemaker has so much more value than money, this is an interesting article.


How Much is a Homemaker Worth?

"The life of a homemaker is one that includes an endless amount of demands and to-dos. Depending on the size of the home and family, the position of homemaker can go well beyond the usual nine to five. We examined some of the tasks that a homemaker might do to find out how much his or her services would net as individual professional careers. We only take into consideration tasks which have monetary values and use the lowest value for each calculation.

Private Chef - Meal preparation is one of the major tasks of most homemakers. From breakfast to dinner, there is plenty of meal planning and cooking to be done. The American Personal Chef Association reports that its personal chefs make $200 to $500 a day. Grocery shopping is another chore that needs to be factored in. A homemaker must drive to the supermarket, purchase the food and deliver it to the home. Grocery delivery services charge a delivery fee of $5 to $10.

Total cost for services: $1,005 per five day work week x 52 weeks = $52,260 per year.


House Cleaner - A clean and tidy home is the foundation of an efficient household. Typical cleaning duties include vacuuming, dusting, sweeping, scrubbing sinks as well as loading the dishwasher and making beds. Professional maids or house cleaning service providers will charge by the hour, number of rooms or square footage of the home. For example, bi-weekly cleaning of a 900-square-foot, two-bedroom apartment with five rooms, costs $59-$124 . A 1,300 square-foot, single-story home with seven rooms runs $79-$150 . A 2,200 two-story, three-bedroom home with nine rooms averages $104-$180 . Additional tasks such as oven or refrigerator cleaning and dusting mini blinds can run an extra $20-$25.

Total cost for services: $118 per week X 52 Weeks = $6,136 per year.


Child Care - Homemakers provide full-time, live-in child care. This type of service from a professional provider would usually come with a host of perks including health insurance, paid vacation and sick days, federal holidays off, dental and vision coverage, and bonuses. The International Nanny Association's 2011 survey found that nannies make $600 to $950 per week in gross wages, on average.

Total cost for services: $600 a week plus perks/benefits x 52 Weeks = $31,200 per year.


Driver - A private car service might seem like a high-end luxury to most, but the beneficiaries of a homemaker get this service on a daily basis. Companies like Red Cap, which provides personal drivers that use the client's own car as the means of transportation, offer a glimpse into the cost of this homemaker task. An elite membership which includes 365 days of unlimited, round-trip service is $1,000 a year plus 33 cents - $2.03 per minute.

Total cost for services: $1,000 per year + [(estimated miles driven 8000 miles / 50 MPH) x 60 min/hr x $0.33 per minute] = $4,168 total per year.


Laundry Service - Clean clothes come at a cost when you have to pay for the service that most homemakers do for free. Professional laundry services charge by the pound. For instance, Susie's Suds Home Laundry Service, Inc. in Texas charges 90 cents to $1.00 a pound to wash, dry, fold, hang and steam your clothes. Items that take longer to dry such as comforters, blankets, rugs and winter clothes are assessed at a price of $12-$15 each.

Total cost for services: $0.90 per pound x 4 pounds of clothes per day x 5 days per weeks x 52 weeks = $936 total per year.


Lawn Maintenance - Basic maintenance of the exterior property is a less common, but possible duty of a homemaker.This could include things such as mowing, debris removal, edging and trimming the lawn. These services cost about $30 a week on average.

Total cost for services: $30 per week x 52 weeks = $1,560 total per year.


The Bottom Line - Total for a year of all services is: $52,260 + $6,137 + $31,200 + $4,168 + $936 + $1,560 = $96,261 per year.



The daily work of a homemaker can sometimes be taken for granted by his or her family members. However, these services could earn a homemaker a considerable wage if he or she took those skills to the marketplace. Homemakers in general contribute a lot more to the home in addition to these tasks, and no amount of money can fill those needs."