David Ring Sermon

Recently I heard a two part sermon by evangelist David Ring on Focus on the Family Radio. It was perhaps one of most touching messages I have ever heard, and I thought I would share it with y'all. But first, for those of you who aren't familiar with David Ring, here is a quick bio:

"Few individuals have felt the crushing blows that have besieged David Ring since birth. He was born to lose. On October 28th, 1953, in Jonesboro, Arkansas, David was born with Cerebral Palsy. Orphaned at age 14, he was cast about from family to family with nowhere to call home. He endured constant physical pain, humiliating public ridicule and constant discouragement. Yet in the face of these seemingly insurmountable obstacles, David emerged not victimized . . . but victorious! Life was worse than hopeless to him until his relationship began with Jesus Christ who taught him self-respect and acceptance of his physical challenges. To most, physical challenges of this magnitude would prove to be a tombstone. For David Ring, this coming of age was and remains a milestone.

You’ve never heard a speaker quite like David Ring. Although difficult to understand at first, you will soon find yourself captured by his quick wit and warm personality. Whether giving a motivational message at a sales convention, or inspiring church leaders, David always focuses on an individual’s need to conquer the personal challenges an adversities of life. As you hear David Ring, you will laugh…and cry. You will be amazed at his triumph over odds. You will be moved to consider your own life. As one who has not been stifled by his physical limitations, he clearly stakes his challenge to everyone. "I have Cerebral Palsy – What’s your problem?"

As a nationally known speaker since 1973, David shares his story with over 100,000 people each year at churches, conventions, schools and corporate events. He has been featured on numerous occasions on several nationally televised programs.

David’s book Just As I Am, (Moody Press, Chicago, IL) tells about his heartaches and victories, and addresses the central theme of his life: "Triumph Over Odds."

Here are the links to the sermon:
Part 1: Living Joyously - Part 1

Part 2: Living Joyously - Part 2

I hope this message inspires and blesses you as much as it did me! Please leave a comment with your thoughts!

College Education

At long last, my article on college education is complete. It is a fitting time, as I graduated from high school on June 7, 2013. The logical next step for most people is college, and it is certainly something my family and I have given much thought to over the past couple of years. Based on the information we have garnered, the people we have talked to, and my specific calling to be a godly homemaker, we have come to the conclusion that college is not the wisest or most profitable occupation for me. I am by no means implying that this is the right decision for everyone, only that all things must be wisely and prayerfully considered regarding this issue in every individual case. We mustn’t simply jump on board the cultural bandwagon, but rather seek the Lord’s will in our lives and follow it, no matter how odd or outdated it may seem to our society. With these things in mind, I hope that you will think through this article and be blessed by it.

Nine Reasons Why I Am not Following the Popular College Route

1. College is not the beginning of knowledge.

Contrary to popular opinion, college does not give us the knowledge we need to live by. It isn’t a light to our path or a lamp to our feet. Our society views college as the road that leads to wisdom and success in life.  Scripture, however, says something entirely different. Proverbs 1:7 says, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” Similarly, Proverbs 9:10 states, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” Therefore, for me to pursue college as the world does - for the ultimate wisdom and understanding that will make me successful in life - would be foolishness. Only the fear of the Lord can truly make me successful, which leads to the second point.

2. The typical college does not teach the fear of the Lord, nor does it fulfill the requirement of wise company.

Since the fear of the Lord is the beginning - the starting point - of all knowledge, a college’s first goal should be to instruct in righteousness. However, as we all know, this is most definitely not the case. In fact, blatant paganism is more welcome on campus than Christianity, and increasingly Christians are prohibited from evangelizing on college grounds. It follows, then, that colleges actually teach foolishness. Psalm 14:1 says, “The fool has said in his heart, ‘There is no God.’” The majority of colleges today teach evolution and atheism rather than the fear of God. Furthermore, Scripture says, “Bad company corrupts good character.” Even as a strong Christian, the Lord warns us not to partake in bad company. A place where the majority of people fear man rather than God, who reject the reality of God, and who “suppress the truth in unrighteousness” would certainly qualify as bad company. It isn’t college that leads to blessing. Psalm 1:1 says, “Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful.”

3. A college degree is not a savior.

This may sound rather extreme, but when everything is boiled down, many people view a degree as some kind of savior. We have had many people ask us, “What if something happens to Stephanie’s husband so that he cannot work, shouldn’t she be prepared with a college education so she can support the family?” While on the surface this sounds reasonable, in reality it reflects a dependence upon the degree instead of on the Lord. I am commanded to follow the Lord’s call for my life and to obey trustfully. He is in charge of everything, and knows what is going to happen in my life. Therefore, I do not have to be afraid about the future, because He has it all planned out. My reliance for provision in times of trial is on Him alone, not on a piece of paper I received. In fact, the Lord provides for everyone, those with and without college degrees. I know the Lord will bless my obedience to His commands as Genesis 26:1-5 illustrates:

There was a famine in the land, besides the first famine that was in the days of Abraham. And Isaac went to Abimelech king of the Philistines, in Gerar. Then the Lord appeared to him and said: “Do not go down to Egypt; live in the land of which I shall tell you. Dwell in this land, and I will be with you and bless you; for to you and your descendants I give all these lands, and I will perform the oath which I swore to Abraham your father. And I will make your descendants multiply as the stars of heaven; I will give to your descendants all these lands; and in your seed all the nations of the earth shall be blessed; because Abraham obeyed My voice and kept My charge, My commandments, My statutes, and My laws.”

4. A college degree is not security.

Following from the above point, it is by no means guaranteed that a college degree will land a job. In fact, a study in 2011 revealed that eight out of ten college graduates were moving back home. College graduates are having significant difficulty finding work, and in June of 2012 the number of jobless graduates was almost 2,000,000. Furthermore, many who are employed don’t work in the field of their study. In our economy, it is just as difficult for a college graduate to find work as it is for a layman to do so. Thus, a degree really provides very little job security.

5. College does not contribute to contentment in my role, nor is it the best use of my single years.

The call the Lord has placed on my life is that of Proverbs 31 and Titus 2. I am preparing to be a submissive wife, mother and teacher, and homemaker. There are so many more details involved in this call, but as that is not the subject of this post, I will confine it to this description. College not only does not contribute to this role, it creates a discontentment with such a role. In studying anywhere from two to twelve years of my life towards a specific career, am I then going to easily and nonchalantly give that career up to be at home? Why would I use the single years the Lord has given me to study something which I will not be pursuing, in an atmosphere which disdains the call I have been given? It simply doesn’t make sense in light of the previous points, the contrary environment, and the time involved in something I won’t be able to pursue. My single years should be used in learning all of the various aspects of my career: that of wife, mother, and homemaker. If I spend that time on college, I will already be behind on knowing how to properly and efficiently run a household.

6. College narrows a woman’s work field.

In fact, why would I want to study one area of interest when I could study many? Why would I concentrate all of my time on a history degree, when during the same amount of time on my own I could learn about cooking, gardening, sewing, home business, raising children, teaching children, self-sufficiency, frugality, financing, holistic medicine, and many more fields? The knowledge base of a truly prepared Proverbs 31 woman is extensive, and ranges multiple degrees. What good is a history degree going to do me when I need to cook a five-course meal? However, I could learn how to cook a five-course meal and learn about history at the same time. The sky is the limit to the fields of study useful in the home.

7. Post-high school education is not limited to college.

As stated in the above point, there are so many fields of study for a Proverbs 31 woman. For as many topics as there are to study there are books. College is not necessary in order to gain an extensive knowledge of a topic. How many things have you learned through simply reading on your own? In fact, college primarily consists of reading and studying on your own anyway. In addition to books, there are local classes, online classes, and so many resources at our fingertips.

8. College debt does not help my future husband.

Proverbs 31:11-12 says, “The heart of her husband safely trusts her; so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life.” One of the greatest strains on a marriage is debt, and by incurring significant debt in college many women are doing their future husbands evil and not good. Furthermore, the Lord specifically warns against debt as slavery, and bringing slavery into a marriage is not the wisest course of action.

9. Many of the successful entrepreneurs never received college degrees.

Many of our founding fathers never even attended school, much less college. But perhaps you think that in order to succeed in today’s world, you must have a college degree. Though as discussed earlier success in this way without the Lord is actually foolishness, a healthy understanding of the lack of necessity for college even in this regard is in order. Michael Dell, founder and CEO of Dell, Inc, dropped out of college at age 19, never achieving the degree for which he was studying. Henry Ford, of Ford Motor Company, never even graduated high school. Bill Gates dropped out of college and established Microsoft. Rachel Ray never received a culinary college education. Steven Spielberg, known as one of the best filmmakers and co-founder of DreamWorks, dropped out of college. Finally, Mark Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook and the youngest person to achieve status on Forbes 400, never received a college degree¹. These people represent the highest pier of worldly success, and none of them attained a college degree. Remember, though, that worldly success is not what we are to strive for, but rather to be like Christ more every day.

I know that these ideas seem strange, and perhaps to some offensive. It is not my goal to offend anyone, but simply to give my reasons why I will not be attending the traditional, popular method of post-high school education. I realize the necessity for college in some occupations, such as that of doctor or nurse. However, for the calling of the woman in Scripture, there is no need to pursue college. This does not mean that I stop learning. In fact, I plan to learn a great deal in a plethora of fields. My focus is on the role the Lord has given me, and the plan He has for my life in regards to my further education. This is not a one-size-fits-all article, because the Lord’s plans are individual and specific. However, never try to fit the cultural expectations into the Lord’s calling for your life, but simply follow Him in faith. He will lead you to the best possible place. I leave you with my favorite verse, Romans 8:28, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”

1. http://learnfinancialplanning.com/famous-people-who-didnt-go-to-college/

Senior Photoshoot

A couple of weeks ago I did my senior photo shoot. It was a beautiful sunny day, but rather windy - which can be slightly difficult with long hair and a skirt - but the pictures turned out wonderful. I want to thank Justus McCranie, a friend and brother-in-Christ, for his skillful work and patience...you can visit his website at Berean Productions. There are many pictures, and all wonderful, but I have chosen these few for the sake of brevity.

This one is awesome!

With my dear friend Haley

I have no idea what Samson was doing here, but I looks pretty funny!

I am so thankful that the Lord called my family to homeschool beginning in the second grade, and that for the past 11 years I have been blessed with the teaching and companionship of my dear mother. My dad has been so supportive and worked so hard in order that we might obey the Lord in this way. I would not exchange my school years for all of the world. I am looking forward to doing the same for my children if the Lord wills.

I do not stop the process of learning at this point, but rather plow ahead to focus on learning how to run and manage a home in all of its aspects, establish a home business, and bless the community and church through service. Most important, I will always strive to grow in the relationship with my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

I can't wait to share with you what I have learned the past several years about college from the Lord, godly speakers, and history. Until then, God bless!

Unconditional & Return to the Hiding Place

I wanted to highly recommend two Christian movies which have just recently been released. The first is "Unconditional":

 

 

The second is "Return to the Hiding Place", which is not released on DVD yet. They are, however, doing showings throughout the U.S.A. and will hopefully soon be releasing it. It won the San Antonio Independent Christian Film Festival "Best Feature Film" award.

 

 

Both of these films were absolutely excellent and extremely moving, and I would highly recommend them for families with children over 13 (or at that maturity level). I am so thankful for the number of distinctly Christian films that are being released these days.

 

I will be posting my senior pictures soon. As far as the post on college goes...I will have to postpone that until I finish with my paper assignment for the online class I am taking. So, look forward to that sometime in May.

 

 

Modesty

To my sisters in Christ, please take the time to watch the video posted below regarding modesty by CJ Mahaney. It is so important to know what our brothers struggle with regarding clothing.

Snow!

I am finally getting around to posting the snow pictures I took on February 16 of this year. We had about four inches of beautiful snow. It was the first snow we have had in several years, and the first in our new home. For the Northerners and those who receive frequent snows amongst my readers, please be patient with a snow-starved Southerner! Without further ado, behold the beauty of winter wonderland:

Measuring the snow accumulation.

 

Our home in the snow. I have waited a long time for this :)

Our backyard

The sun is setting

The barns

In the morning

An old piece of cotton equipment that is on our property....absolutely stunning in the snow

The pathway to the field behind our property

The field

 

Bundled up

Samson using the coat God bestowed upon him. He looks so much like a wolf :)

I hope you enjoyed these few snippets of our life here on our little farm. I am working on a post about college and hope to share it soon, if the Lord wills.

Generational Vision

I read Isaiah 39 this morning, and it struck me particularly poignantly. In Isaiah 38, King Hezekiah is sick and dying, so he calls out to the Lord. The Lord hears his prayer, heals him, and promises him 15 more years of life. Hezekiah praises the Lord for this blessing. Then, we get to Isaiah 39, which is directly after this, as seen by "At that time". The passage reads:

"At that time Merodach-Baladan, the son of Baladan, king of Babylon, sent letters and a present to Hezekiah, for he heard that he had been sick and had recovered. And Hezekiah was pleased with them, and showed them the house of his treasures - the silver and gold, the spices and precious ointment, and all his armory - all that was found among his treasures. There was nothing in his house or in all his dominion that Hezekiah did not show them.

Then Isaiah the prophet went to King Hezekiah, and said to him, 'What did these men say, and from where did they come to you?'

So Hezekiah said, 'They came to me from a far country, from Babylon.'

And he said, 'What have they seen in your house?'

So Hezekiah answered, 'They have seen all that is in my house; there is nothing among all my treasures that I have not shown them.'

Then Isaiah said to Hezekiah, 'Hear the word of the Lord of hosts: 'Behold, the days are coming when all this is in your house, and what your fathers have accumulated until this day, shall be carried to Babylon; nothing shall be left,' says the Lord. 'And they shall take away some of your sons who will descend from you, whom you will beget; and they shall be eunuchs in the palace of the king of Babylon.'

So Hezekiah said to Isaiah, 'The word of the Lord which you have spoken is good!' For he said, 'At least there will be peace and truth in my days.'"


The thought struck me thus:

Hezekiah had been blessed with immense wealth and prestige. He had also been given extended years. He was one of the few kings who sought the Lord, and whom the Lord bestowed favor upon. The king of Assyria, who had conquered nation after nation, threatened to attack Judah. However, because this king mocked the God of Israel, and because Hezekiah sought God's protection, the Angel of the Lord wiped out 185,000 Assyrians. Thus, they never even attempted attack upon Judah. Hezekiah had it great. There was peace and truth in Judah.

However, Isaiah prophesied that times were coming, because of the sin of Judah, when Babylon would conquer them, destroy their land, and take them into captivity. He even prophesied that Hezekiah's own sons would be slaves to the king. This was terrible news.

At least, it would seem so. But instead of tearing his clothes and donning ashes, Hezekiah said, "This prophecy sounds good." What? Good? For some reason, judgement, captivity, and destruction don't sound too good to me. So why did Hezekiah say this was "good"? Because it wasn't going to happen in his time. He would get to enjoy pleasure, peace and prosperity for the remainder of his days. Who cares about what happens down the road when I'm gone? So long as it doesn't affect my happiness and wealth, I couldn't care less. Actually, I think it is "good".

This really struck me, and honestly, convicted me. So often, I do things for the here-and-now, when in reality, my decisions and sins affect generations to come. And, then, on a wider scale, I thought about our country.

Hezekiah was king of Judah, and he had no generational vision. If the leaders of a people have no generational vision, and refuse to look to the future consequences of ideas and policies, what will happen to a nation? If the men who have the greatest capacity to influence the direction of a nation to godliness and lasting happiness only think about today, what do we have to look forward to? Well, what happened to Judah? Instead of removing the high places, Hezekiah took the path of least resistance. He gloried in his state of peace and truth, and left the nation to crumble. Judah was destroyed, and the people taken into captivity, never to be the same.

Our national debt is out the roof - over 13 trillion dollars. We revel in sin: murder of the innocent, homosexuality, pornography, profanity, and perversions of all kinds. Children are being indoctrinated in the government schools, learning "tolerance" for all but Christians. False religions are rampant. We have too many "high places" to count. The next generation will indelibly feel the full effects of this gross system of immorality, and may well have very little of a nation left to fight for. And what is our response? We want pleasure in the here-and-now more than ever before. Women shouldn't be burdened with children, in fact, society shouldn't be burdened with children. Who cares about the unimaginable debt we have already incurred for our 1.87 children per family. Let's spend more, leaving our children to figure out the solution. No need for moms and dads to teach their kids, as Scripture commands, just send them off to a God-less institution to educate them. No, we have said what Hezekiah said in the face of looming national destruction, "It sounds good."

Even in perhaps less obvious ways, we often make choices every day that negatively effect the generations to come. I know I do. It isn't as if Hezekiah was some pagan king....no, he was a godly king, and yet he still failed to realize the importance - the vital necessity - of a generational vision.

What contributes to a healthy nation in the future? A godly nation in the present. Without the Lord our God guiding us, we are incapable of preserving anything, for we ourselves, apart from Christ, are doomed to destruction. He gives us the generational vision, because He has a generational vision.

Our founding fathers understood this well. In fact, the only reason we have a nation today is because they valued this principal so highly. The well-known speech of Patrick Henry bares this out:

--- "Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery?"

I know this may seem impossible, but if God is for us, who can be against us? I also know I haven't done justice to this passage, but I had to share with you a little of what I learned. I couldn't believe how much God revealed to me through this passage.

I highly recommend listening to Generations Radio, hosted by Kevin Swanson, to understand more about a multi-generational legacy. You can visit the website, here. Or, you can listen to his sermons on Sermon Audio.

We just got snow yesterday, so I can't wait to share snow pictures with y'all!

Please, please, please leave a comment with your thoughts on this important topic.